What
do you call it when younger women find older men to have sex with, and then
have him pay for everything? You would call the guy a 'Sugar Daddy', right? But
if that older gent is paying for the sex indirectly with gifts, is it still
considered prostitution? According to these young women, it's not! Meet the
sugar babies, the New York 20-somethings, who don't want to find a job, they
just want to find an older man to pay their tuition, rent and buy them fancy
gifts and take them on exclusive international vacations in return for a good
time.
One
such girl is Lovely Phillips, who says that she's really strict with her sexual
partners and that it's always a monogamous relationship. She also added that
they don't use the terms 'sugar daddy' or 'sugar baby' and that he calls her
his girlfriend. Phillips is one of an increasing number of college coeds
looking for May until December romances through matchmaking sites like
SeekingArrangements.com, which hook up poor, pretty young women with rich,
older men to cover their tuition and other expenses in exchange for
companionship. According to the website, 285 NYU students and 100 Columbia
University Ivy League students joined last year.
While
these sugar daddy dating services insist that the girls are not obligated to
get down and dirty with their benefactors, three NYC sugar babies admitted that
sex is often a huge part of the package, but insist that it's on their own
terms. I guess you really have to love 'old man balls' to really be into this.
Then again, if you can find someone willing to pay your bills, I guess that's
not too shabby of a deal, but it is prostitution and in my mind, you're a
whore. Phillips will debate that statement saying, "I don't call it
prostitution, because you're not being paid directly for sex. You are being
helped financially in different ways: You go shopping, you go out to eat, you
go to see plays, and you have fun. It's just like dating." It's just like
dating? Yeah, only there are no feelings involved and this poor old guy is
spending all of his money on you for sex. Sounds like a WHORE to me. One girl,
Minoo Mirsaidi (nice fake name!), spent the last eight months living a life of
luxury in a Times Square condo with a doorman and an indoor pool thanks to her
75-year-old sugar daddy. This is absolutely disgusting!
It
seems these sugar daddy dating sites have taken the place of the modern day
madams, and to those women out there reading this, who are thinking that this
might not be a bad idea to get your bills paid, stick to your day jobs! At
least with your day job, you still have your dignity and you're not giving a
little piece of yourself to every 'old man Winters' that you'll have to date.
Just think about it for a minute. It would be sort of like dating your
grandfather and having sex with him. Is that worth getting your bills paid? I
think I've said enough....I'm starting to make myself sick!
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