WHO THE F**K DID I MARRY??? SHE WAS A MAN??

This story is pretty bizarre! It reminded me of that whole Madame Butterfly scenario, where man falls in love with a woman, marries her and then finds out she's a man, baby! That's what happened to this Belgian man, who we'll just be calling Jan. He's apparently pulling the plug on his 19-year marriage after he found out that his wife was born a man. 

Jan told one newspaper that he felt violated and assaulted. He thought she was an attractive woman and that she had no male traits whatsoever. Jan, who is 64, met Monica, who is from Indonesia, when she worked as an au pair for his family nearly 20 years ago. He would bring Monica, 48, back with him to Belgium, which was a task that he says 'wasn't easy' because the Belgian courts had serious doubts about the authenticity of her birth certificate and identity, but they accepted it anyway. There's red flag number 1. The couple also decided not to have kids because Jan already had two kids from a previous marriage. Um, that should have been red flag number 2! Jan went on to say that Monica would trick him using sanitary napkins while pretending to have her period. He claims even during sex, he never noticed anything! How about the fact that she always wanted the lights off during sex, Jan? That would've been red flag number 3! Get her, I mean him, out of here!

It wasn't until Monica got a full-time job that Jan said he saw another side of his wife. His eldest son saw her sometimes at a night club, virtually dresses like a slut, showing more skin than a married woman should be showing. Jan also caught her sending suspicious messages to other men. When he finally had enough, he decided to confront her about the rumors he's heard that she was born a man. He says that he pushed her against a wall and demanded the truth, and that's exactly what he got. She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she had been operated on to remove her boy parts. (Ouch!)

Needless to say, Jan's world came crashing down around him and after hearing her confession, he got a little physical with Monica until the police came to their house. Jan is now receiving psychiatric treatment, which I can't blame him for, and has since tried to annul the marriage, but Belgian courts have rejected his requests and the couple, unfortunately, still lives together. I would make her life a living hell so that she would want to leave. What a dishonest, b**ch! Jan's lawyer is claiming that his client was scammed and that Monica forged her documents to get a residence permit. Jan's children, who lived with her for years, are also said to be devastated. I have to say this lady is a psycho and I think Jan should be able to punish her any way he sees fit because of the 19 years of deceit that he's had to live with!